Things I learned and earned from breakup 2009

As I was distracted from my original trail of thought, here we go again:

It haunted me for 5 years... and I regretted having done it for 5 years. But now in the present I'm happy that I did gain myself. I wish it took a year to do it though and less hassle and heartbreak... but here we are.

I have rounds of friends who will be there for me.

I am not dependent on anyone, and I do hope from now on that I will never be.

I am closer to my family than ever.

I have seen the type of men out there and I know what I want and I know that they can be such scums that I'd hold precious a good relationship when I get it.

I am now "successful".  And still aiming for independence and success. I will never quit my job when I get a family. Better yet I will have my OWN business.


And finally, I know I will get over anyone. Kung ikaw na get over ko, anybody else pa kaya. The sense of freedom is immensely beautiful and calming that I'm starting to believe I am happy WITHIN.